Matron of Honor: Kristi LinI met Kristi years ago when she was my freshman year roommate at Rice. I can still remember what she was wearing that fateful day: a purple plaid shirt, purple shorts, purple socks, and Cole Haan moccasins. It didn't take long before I began to torture her with Dress Like Your Roommate day or singing "Cecilia" at the top of my lungs in our afternoon chemistry lab. She was a trooper and survived four years of rooming, dancing on tables at parties, staying up all night playing bridge and Pictionary, and occasionally (very occasionally) studying with me.
At some point, I told her she'd have to be my maid of honor and then after we were married we could have a pediatrics practice in Santa Barbara, live in neighboring houses on the beach, and send our kids to the same school. While I gave up on the idea of becoming a doctor and Kristi traded in Pediatrics for ophthalmology, Kristi kept her promise to be my maid of honor all these years later. Thank you, Kristi, for always standing by me, no matter what kind of hair brained idea I might have.
Emily LiuI met Emily, too, during my years at Rice. Since then, she has been a constant shopping companion and can tear up the dance floor like nobody's business. She's always said that the two of us can have fun in a cardboard box. I'd have to agree.
As if that weren't enough, she's inspired me to try things outside of my comfort zone. She has directed my stage debut, gotten me out in the sandpit for a game of volleyball, and even encouraged me to take (who'd-a-thunk-it) non-science classes. Even though I might turn the wrong direction on stage, close my eyes and duck when a volleyball comes flying at me, or not know the difference between a debit or a credit on a balance sheet, she'd always cheer me on for trying. And when the going got tough, she made sure I'd stick it out. These days, she's putting her multiple skills to work in the marketing group at Cadbury-Schwepps. Thank you, M, for always being my sounding board.
Bryan and Jennifer CheeUm, I can't remember meeting Bryan. There are certainly pictures of the day I was brought home from the hospital when my parents put me in his arms. He stared up at them with wide eyes of wonderment as if to ask, "And what am I supposed to do with this?" He suffered through too many years of being blamed for fighting with me, my temper tantrums, and general little sister abuse. Hah, you're stuck with me bro!
But really, Bryan's taken it all in stride. I will count on him as we get older to carry on the family traditions and I'm definitely going to their house for winter melon soup and steamed fish!
I've only known Jennifer for a short while, but in the 3 years since we've met, she's become the sister I never had. Jennifer has helped me through these crazy waters known as engagement with humor and patience. I'm glad to be sharing the same moniker (for now) and entrust her with keeping Bryan in line.
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